Last week was our Christmas party at Ella's Moms&Tots class, and I had to take a plate of sweet eats, something suitable for both adults and the toddlers. What's better than marie biscuit fudge? Everyone loves that!
It's so quick and easy to make.
- 1 packet Marie biscuits, crushed into crumbs and small pieces
- 500g icing sugar
- half a cup cocoa
- 1 egg, lightly beaten, add a dash of vanilla essence
- 250g butter, melted
I melt the butter in the microwave on low.
I crush the marie biscuits with my pestle and mortar.
Then add the icing sugar and cocoa and give it a bit of a stir through, before adding the beaten egg and the melted butter. Stir through (don't burn with the melted butter!)
Press flat into a pan, and pop it into the fridge to chill.
Cut into squares.
Keep in airtight container - I like mine cold, so keep it in the fridge.
A fond memory I have about these treats, is that when I was in college, my darling Granny used to give me frozen containers of meals she had cooked for dinner and kept some aside for me. I would then just pop them in my freezer and take them out as I needed a meal. Once, I didn't check what was inside the container, took it out in the morning to defrost, and that evening when I wanted to warm it up and opened it for the first time - it was a container full of marie biscuit fudge!
We had so much fun two weekends ago when we hosted a lil Halloween party. Who doesn't love a bit of dress-up? (Besides my hubby, he wore a pumpkin hat for a photo and that was it! But he was a great sport with helping with decor though.)
The kids really enjoyed it. I want to make it a yearly thing that we host a Halloween party!
I started blogging in 2010, right at the beginning of my pregnancy with Mia. I used the Parent24 platform, which was really nice - lots of friendly bloggers, lots of interactions, and I made some very good friends that I met there! However, after 2.5 years of blogging there, they changed their whole blogging interface and moved it to a new platform - one that was so different to the previous one, that everyone literally stopped blogging there within a few months. That's when I moved over to Blogger and started this blog.
Often, at least once a month, I would refer back to my Parent24 blog, especially to read back to things I was doing with Mia when she was Ella's current age - things like craft activities, teething timeline, illness history, milestones, etc.
Recently, when trying to access my old blog, my heart stood still, when I couldn't find it, it just kept reverting back to the Parent24 homepage... The blogs have been deleted! This is truly one of my worst nightmares come true. I never did a full back-up or import of all my posts on there. Thankfully, I did keep lots of the really important posts in a Word Doc, like my birth story, letters to Mia, and some of the monthly updates. But not all of them. There's literally 2.5 years of posts, vanished. Yes, I should have done a back-up... But still, surely there could have been some sort of notification from the Parent24 team that this was going to happen...
I have tried to make contact with the Parent24 team to ask about the possibility of retrieving my posts, but haven't had any reply, unfortunately.
All in all, this has made me feel quite negative about blogging... all the hours spent writing all those posts... and that got me thinking, what guarantee do I have that the same couldn't happen just as easily to this blog? Blogger might decide they've had enough and also press 'delete'! Oh, the thought makes me shudder. I'm starting to copy all my posts into a Word Doc, but it's going to take quite a while...
Then, the other reason I think I've lost my blogging mojo, is that I joined the SA Mom Blogs group on Facebook a couple of months ago, and also added my blog onto their "blog roll". It's been such a nice way to get into touch with more bloggers, I've really enjoyed coming across so many wonderful blogs. But - this also needs a lot of time - time that I don't have!! To really make proper use of the SA Mom Blogs community, I think you need to take part a lot. Need to comment on blogs, need to comment on Facebook posts, need to be sure to constantly be 'visible'... And, unfortunately, I just have too many other priorities at the moment, to invest the necessary time and energy into building my blog's status... As much as I would like to!
I love blogging though. I love sharing what my girlies are up to. I love reading blogs.
I'm definitely not going to stop blogging. In fact, already have two posts lined up to share pics from Mia's school concert and our Halloween party.
Think I must just shake off the pressure I've put on myself to try and "be a good blogger" and just continue what I was doing - and save my posts on Word Doc from now on!
You’re one-and-a-half today, and we celebrated it with one-and-a-half
candles on a cupcake for breakfast!
I just love your face, I love to stare at you and kiss you and hug
you! You give the best hugs and kisses back,
which makes my heart burst with love.
You love to jump with your sister in the trampoline, you love to paint,
you love to watch Barney, and you love to play outside. Your favourite toy is your dudu bunny, and
you love to do row-row-row-the-boat song with mommy.
When I give you two biscuits, you immediately share with your sister. I
love that! You love to make us laugh, you’re quite the entertainer! You love to
pretend to talk on the telephone and have a huge babbling conversation.
You’re growing into a beautiful little girl, my darling, I love you so
1.) How old today? One and a half today!
2.) New milestones/ talents/ achievements? She’s trying very hard to run – does a very cute fast-walk! Trying to
jump too. She’s starting to sleep better at night – some nights she sleeps
through the night now, yay! Some nights wakes up once or twice for some reassurance.
3.) Favourite toys & favourite things to do?
Her dudu bunny is her absolute favourite thing in
the world. She hugs it so tight! She enjoys watching Barney and
Lollos dvds. She loves exploring
outside. She’s starting to enjoy play-dough and painting. She loves the Moms&Tots class we go to on
Wednesdays, takes part so nicely!
6.) How is toddler sleeping at night? She’s starting to sleep through the night more and more, maybe every
second night though she still wakes once or twice, then I just re-settle her
and she goes back to sleep. Bedtime is between 7pm and 7h30. She wakes up
really early some mornings, and others she sleeps til after 6.
7.) Day naps? Two day naps, mostly. Usually
from 9h30 til 11h30, and then at 3h30 for about an hour.
8.) How many teeth – and how are teething issues
going? 16 toofies!
Yay, almost done! The last 4 are the two-year molars, so relieved we
have a bit of a break from all the teething niggles!
9.) Weight and length? Weighed her on our scale the other day, 12kg. Will get proper
measurements with the vaccs next week.
10.) Clothing size and shoe size? 12 – 18 months, or 18-24 months, or 1-2 years. Shoe size 5.
11.) Recent toddler ‘highs’? I love the interaction, and her cuddles and hugs and kisses. Seeing the two sisters together is so awesome.
12.) Recent toddler ‘lows’? Some separation anxiety issues at the moment.
13.) What are you looking forward to in the coming
months? New words, better understanding and communication.
14.) How are mommy and daddy doing? We’re exhausted at night, wish we could spend more time together in the
evenings, but we just collapse into bed! Weekends are great though, always
spend special time together. Looking
forward to family holiday coming up in December!
Development, Stimulation and Activities (Mostly suited for 1 – 3 years)
games. Throwing, kicking, bouncing,
over, under and through things!
Make an obstacle
course using cushions and pillows
toddler on a gym ball and do movements
‘ball’ with a balloon
balance – walking on a plank, or on big tractor tyres, or along little garden
walls (always support them!)
toddler colourful scrap paper and a small hole puncher. Show them how to use it.
tents with furniture and big sheets to climb into
tunnels with chairs for them to climb through
gyms, swings, sandpits
few small containers with different textured things, like popcorn,
rice-krispies and raisins. Let your
toddler empty the container, and then pick up the small individual snacks and
put them back again. (Munching along the
way!) This encourages picking small
objects up, and can help with sorting too.
rings and cups, or building blocks
puzzles, or wooden shape puzzles
macaroni onto a string
stickers on a paperplate or surface, and let them pick the stickers off
with feather dusters
grains of rice inside a deflated balloon
plastic animals in a bowl of sand, or a bowl of material etc, and let the
toddler find the animals
toddler containers with lids and screw tops and show them how to open and close
fridge magnets on the fridge or on a tin tray
talk, talk to your toddler. Tell them
what you’re doing. Tell them what colour
things are. Count things. Explain shapes. Use descriptive words, and let them
participate / feel / experience: “feel
the cement is hot” “feel the tiles are cold” “feel the rain is wet” “touch the
soft blanket” “taste the sweet grapes”
sounds that your toddler is making, and then encourage them to make sounds that
doll or another person, point out body parts
pictures of facial expressions and point out happy, sad, etc
photographs of loved ones and talk about them
toddler learn words and say them – don’t let them get used to just pointing out
what they want, ask them “what”
games with your toddler, like pointing at an object, starting to say the word,
and letting them complete it
books! Read lots!
playdates with other toddlers
to their facial expressions or actions: “oh you got a fright at the loud
noise!” “are you upset that you have to put the toys away”, “wow, isn’t that so
time and space when interacting with other toddlers
them to share – when eating finger snacks, ask for a bite, thank them for
sharing. Set an example by sharing with
about feelings – tell them you love them often, tell them how you feel when you
are tired, irritated, happy, excited.
your toddler respect for people and animals by setting the best example
gives kids lots of opportunities to learn and develop.
finger paints, hand or foot prints, big paintbrushes, using cut up sponges or
materials to paint with
mixed with water
‘slime’ (using grated soap and water!)
(instant mashed potato)
bowls with small containers, cups and utensils in to pour water in and out of
of hand print and foot print art!These
are great fun for little ones, and make such great keepsakes!
toddler scribble with crayons on paper
toddler make birthday, Christmas, I-Love-You cards for loved ones
scavenger hunt with your toddler, with themes such as shapes, opposites or
taste different tastes and explain to them what they are tasting
home-made band out of pots and spoons!
your toddler to sniff at things, tell them what they are smelling
Peg-a-box: Put clothes pegs around an icecream container
or similar, and let the toddler remove them.
Show them how to put them back again.
buckets – put them some distance away from each other. Fill one bucket with objects, such as socks,
and let toddler transfer all of them into the empty bucket. And back again.
dried leaves – make piles, jump through them.
Stick them on a paper with a tree drawn on it.
cookies – involve the toddler in the process and the decorations afterwards
memory games like hide and seek – hiding objects in the same place in a room
with scarves or ribbons
Go for a
walk. Take a basket or container with,
let your toddler collect little items along the way – stones, leaves,
sticks. Talk about them. Ask questions, “how does it feel”, “what
colour is it”
toddler do “people-watching”. Whether
it’s people riding bicycles, shopping, exercising, playing games – the movement
really stimulates these little brains.
bubbles – let your toddler catch them, and let your toddler try and blow
bubbles by themselves
walk in the rain – with raincoats, boots and umbrellas
walk on grass and in sand, tell them about the texture
flowers, trees, birds – make them aware and appreciative of nature
the grass and point out clouds
chase each other!
‘goodie bag’ – a drawstring type bag, filled with small toys like cars, shapes,
Purity lids, different textures, ribbons with bells on, etc. This provides entertainment by unpacking and examining
snacks that take time to eat – like a container of cheerios, or biltong sticks
Mia's on school holiday this week, and we've had a playdate with friends here at home, we've been for icecream at the dairy farm and we've made iced marie biscuits for my grandfather.
Today I didn't have any clients booked, and decided to just do some arts & crafts stuff at home. I came across a whole lot of ideas, and thought we'd see how far we get with doing as many as possible today. Ha! We only did two:
Edible Paint: - 2 tablespoons of sugar - 1/2 cup of cornflour - 3 cups cold water - food colouring Stir sugar and cornflour together, then slowly add water and heat over medium heat until mixture thickens. It will thicken further when it cools. Divide into four containers and add food colouring. Paint with brushes or fingers!
This takes quite long to prepare - it took about 10 minutes to mix and cook, and then about 20 minutes to cool down. While cooling, we prepped the next activity:
Soap Slime: - half a grated Lux soap - 3 cups of boiling water - food colouring Mix boiling water and grated soap together to melt it - we used the electric mixer. Add in food colouring.
It went all soapy and bubbly - and then it also needed to be left alone to thicken and cool and become slimy.
The girlies enjoyed the painting - however, the "edible" part was actually wasted, as neither of them wanted to eat any of it! Surprisingly, even Ella didn't like it when I tried to give her a lick. I'm actually relieved - this means we can start moving on to regular painting with Ella - no need to worry that she'll want to put the paintbrush in her mouth! However, she did not want to stick to painting only her paper, she painted Mia's paper (much to Mia's horror), she painted the newspaper and the table, and even tried to go outside with her paintbrush...
The soap-slime took quite a while to cool down and become slimy - Mia was super impressed and "dug" right in. Ella, on the other hand, was not keen on the texture at all and preferred to dig into it with her spade, flinging bits of the slime all over the place!
Both of these activities took quite some time in preparing them - and the painting kept them busy for maybe 10 minutes, and the slime for less than 5... Felt like so much effort for such a short time of "fun" - but nonetheless, it was an experience for all of us and nice to do something different than the usual daily activities and play.
Another painting activity I found that looks super cool, but didn't have the energy for today, is this salt, glue and watercolour art... Perhaps tomorrow! ;-)
Another party done and dusted! It was wonderful, special times with family and friends.
The Barbie cake was very special indeed. Every little girl should have a doll dress cake for at least one birthday in their lives, right? Mia asked for this... and mom-in-law, sister-in-law, and myself made it! Very pleased with our handiwork. I'll stick to my day job though. ;-)
Oumi and Skoonsus made the bottom round cake and decorated it. Oumi and myself did the dress part, making turns to do the buttercream piping, and then I did the final touch of adding the little edible pearls. Mia was super impressed and very happy with her cake!
We decorated the entrance onto the patio with a shiny black "curtain", and I cut out Barbie silhouettes and stuck them up all over.
Birthday girl waiting for her guests. ♥
Jump jump fun!
Our garden was transformed into a pink and black Barbie party, looked so pretty!
I decorated the party packs with ribbon, pearl stickers and cut out the Barbie silhouette pic.
Mom-in-law made the party favours - pink scarves with Barbie silhouette on for the girls, and a plain black scarf for the little boys!
Blowing out her candles ♥
The photobooth activity was a big hit, the kids loved it!